How did we get here?

It's getting tougher all the time. Do you find that you often have more month left over than money? It's easy to get there. But how?

First we have the "gottahaveitnow" camp:
We decide that what we want, or "need", should be satisfied immediately. That new car or TV, or that bigger house, is so mission-critical for us that lack of money should not stand in our way. We find our selves out "just looking", which quickly evolves into "we can't pass up this deal".

"Things" become our identity and our barometer of success, to ourselves, as well as to those we seek to impress: family, friends, neighbors, co-workers and clients.

Then there are those who succumb to emergencies:
Unexpected and under-insured medical expenses, broken down cars and appliances, or necessary home repairs to name but a few. In the recent past, medical expenses were the most common reason for personal bankruptcy.

The cost of responding to these needs, whether real or imagined, are made decidedly worse by the fact that we often use credit to pay for them. Credit cards, mortgage and equity loans, payday loans and rent-to-own arrangements are all part of the mix. "We can get you in the car you deserve!" or "No payments for the next 6 months!" or worse yet, short term loans that equal interest rates of over 100% per year.

Budgeting, planning, saving for a rainy day: these are the tools of the rich. They don't get caught paying substantially more for something, because they didn't plan for that purchase or that unfortunate event.

In the coming days, we'll talk about some of the basic tools you should have in your arsenal. Instead of asking yourself how you got here, you'll be deciding where you will be one month, one year and five years from now.